Self/Inner Peace: Don’t Allow Others to Enter…

capture_2017-02-13-22-53-04-1Unfortunately we have to deal with people from all spectrums of life and sadly many of them aren’t happy…not with you necessarily, but with themselves. Have you ever told someone some good news and their reply is usually something negative trying to bring you down? Well those my friend are the “inner peace” robbers as I like to call them. Usually when individuals aren’t happy about something that’s going on with their lives…naturally they’ll try to rob you of the joys in yours. This is why I never try to compare myself to others. That’s the fastest way to join the peace robbers club. When individuals view something about you or your way of living as being what they feel might be better than theirs, so then what comparisons usually does is create envy and that leads to jealousy. To me being envious or jealous of people, or just not liking them over what dress size they where is ridiculous. I don’t know if, I can stress enough how our uniqueness is what makes us be who we are individually and that’s a great thing that we are different. Each journey is not going to be the same.

Granted there will be always be some individuals who we won’t like and that is fine too. You don’t have to be a peace robber though to know that certain people you just won’t mix with. Many of us will not like every person we meet and that’s to be expected. But, to not like an individual, because she walks in heels better than you is not a real reason to be negative towards them. Yes, sometimes a person will try to disrupt your peace over your attire as an example…it can be that small. I don’t know of many ways of not having to deal with the world, but you can stay away from the drama that many come with. Whether it’s school, the workplace, or even with some family/close friends…peace robbers are amongst us in every form. Know when your inner peace is being targeted and attacked and then treat those individuals accordingly. I will say for all the scenarios mentioned… knowing when individuals are just energy robbers or always knowing something about others and quick to tell it is a sure sign to stay away. Those are usually the ones that probably don’t have much going on within their own lives, so they like being messy in other individuals lives. Again, these can be those you work with, go to school with and often those you call friends and family. If you find yourself when around these type try to distance yourself as much as possible. Keeping some distance can help you to keep some peace.

A person’s inner peace for most take time to build up, so it’s not fair that there are those individuals who eagerly await to tear down what you’ve worked hard to build. They show you signs of how they’re not really the right people you should associate with on a regular or personal basis, so pay attention to the signs early on. This way you’ll know what type of relationship to build with them and when to deal with them. What I’ve learned is when people don’t know a lot about your business and they see that you don’t entertain them then they will somewhat move on to others who will give them that needed attention. In most instances we will have to still deal with these type of people and that’s fine, but knowing how to keep it professional and when to steer clear of unnecessary drama will later spare you and your inner peace. With day to day life and none us needing any added stress the peace robbers will definitely try to add extras you don’t need in your life. Protect your energy and peace with all things that you do and when coming in contact with those you know mean you no good (and we know the type and for many who they are) deal with them accordingly. Remembering we can’t run from the world or the individuals in it, but you do have control over who and what you allow to upset your peace. Feel free to share this post if it’s helpful and to leave me a comment below. Also, feel free to follow me on IG @healthytipsbytee for more helpful tips. Hope this was helpful, because I know many of us have to deal with certain things in life daily including certain individuals, but never let it get the best of you! Until next time…

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Author: HealthyTipsbyTee

Hello, My name is Tamira and I would like for you to enjoy my blog as I share healthy living tips that's working for me. As we embark upon a new date it's the perfect time to put more focus on ourselves not only for us, but for our families as well...you can't pour from an empty cup! Over the past several years, I've become extremely conscious about the products I use in all aspects of my life from which laundry detergents to buy...all the way to the nail polish I use, and what foods I consume. As you can imagine there are many things in between this broad spectrum and I would like to share all of these life changing tips with you. As you visit my blog expect to learn of natural remedies for beauty, health and house keeping tips. To me, being healthy consist of a variety of things and eating healthy is very important as well...for beauty begins on the inside, so you can definitely expect me to touch basis on that also. Now, as we start our new journey on health and wellness together I would like to take the time and pleasure of welcoming you to my blog "Healthy Tips by Tamira". This will be the perfect time to start over for a new beautiful beginning and a new you!

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