Being Stingy w/You: Why it’s so IMPORTANT…

It is very easy to allow people into your personal space and sometimes that’s a bad thing. The energies of others do affect your enegry regardless of what we may think. Energies do transfer and that’s factual, so being choosy with whom you spend time with is very important for self care and being overall healthy. You want to either be around individuals who generate your type of enegry, or in most cases you may want to fly solo I am definitely being more selective with me.

Capture+_2017-01-22-12-04-34-1.pngOnce that negative energy is transferred upon you…it’s hard to shake it and this throws off your energy or where the positive energy you’re working towards. Never allow others with their confusion or unhappiness to push you out of your personal space. These energy robbers have issues with self and if any person isn’t happy within themselves…obviously they won’t be the choice people to be around! Protect your inner peace as much as possible.

I think that mental issues play a huge role in the way people are inconsistent, unhappy, and the multiple attitudes and how their original intents can just change with the wind! That’s a sign of unstable health and it often goes igknored and never resolved. We don’t like to speak much about mental health, but mental health is MORE important in my opionion that what we eat and how we look, because if your mental isn’t right…how are you functioning in society on a daily based???

Your mental has to be right to make it in this world! You may need to seek the necessary help when it’s obvious you may need it. Walking around being fake happy and trying to convince yourself that things are okay…when deep down you know it’s not is only hurting you more! If something is bothering you…speak your mind! Keeping it bottled up inside is only hurting you. People may not like what you say, but always be your own person and get things off your chest…if that’s one of your issues. Stop pretending and seek the help you need in order to make you better with yourself.

When it becomes obvious to others that you may need help…then the wrong hidden inside has already manifested in a more troubling issue on the outside and it then begin to affect your interactions with your family and friends. Acknowledge the issues and then plan to work them out, so you can move in toward a better you. It might not be able to be done alone, so towards the proper measures now while you still can. When those who opt to ignore the help they so desperately need continue to give off these bad vibes, energies, and the overall unhappy body language then its time for you to step back and stay away from these type of people. They are not only bad for their own health and good, but these type of people are bad for YOUR mental health too.

I for one have always been able to sense the fakeness in people and that’s why I don’t engage myself and my peace around these type and yes they can and usually be family and those friends who only want to study you, so they can copy you. Yes I’mbvery familar with fake so called friends. Again…PROTECT your space from these people. In the long run these people not realizing that they are harming themselves will eventually bring you down with them…if you’re not selective and stingy with who you share your time with. When people who hop from relationship to relationships or have imaginary so called relationship whatever type they might be that’s a sign of mental issue. And steering yourself away from the drama, confusion that comes from being around these folks and how you allowed them to pull YOU into THEIR storm…we’ll only regret it and be mad at yourself in the end.

Yes WE ALL have issues that start with the way the world was shaped, so unfortunately that’s something out of our control how we got the issues that’s and an entire different topic, but knowing those who need the help and I’m not talking about meds, but seeking a therapist to speak with you about whatever issue you might be having that is harboring this angry space within you that’s eating away at your internal peace and outter happiness that others are seeing. Remember we have to travel light when we know what we want in life and traveling on that road to a healthy new you. Our mental is important to help us  reach our maximum potential in life and you can’t have others with their nonsense knocking you off track. Do what you need to do for self first nd foremost…even if you have to do it alone. You are responsible for your own well being and taking the necessary measures that will help YOU in the end. Until next time…

 

 

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Author: HealthyTipsbyTee

Hello, My name is Tamira and I would like for you to enjoy my blog as I share healthy living tips that's working for me. As we embark upon a new date it's the perfect time to put more focus on ourselves not only for us, but for our families as well...you can't pour from an empty cup! Over the past several years, I've become extremely conscious about the products I use in all aspects of my life from which laundry detergents to buy...all the way to the nail polish I use, and what foods I consume. As you can imagine there are many things in between this broad spectrum and I would like to share all of these life changing tips with you. As you visit my blog expect to learn of natural remedies for beauty, health and house keeping tips. To me, being healthy consist of a variety of things and eating healthy is very important as well...for beauty begins on the inside, so you can definitely expect me to touch basis on that also. Now, as we start our new journey on health and wellness together I would like to take the time and pleasure of welcoming you to my blog "Healthy Tips by Tamira". This will be the perfect time to start over for a new beautiful beginning and a new you!

3 thoughts on “Being Stingy w/You: Why it’s so IMPORTANT…”

  1. This was a really great read. I am always telling people to be mindful of the connections they make. Unfortunately for some they can’t seem to cut the cord on these attachments and it ends up taking a toll on their lives. I am one who is always helping someone and I got to a place where I was losing myself. There are people who really want to change and then there are people who are not even trying to help themselves and become dependent upon you being their happiness. I am very sensitive to energies so those types of situations would drained me and my life would began to change because of it in a not so good way. Being stingy with self is absolutely ok.

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